as mentioned in a previous post . . . I have been wanting to make
a few changes to my blog . . .
and last weekend - I worked on it for quite a long time!!
crazy as it sounds - I was trying to simplify my life a bit!!
and last weekend - I worked on it for quite a long time!!
crazy as it sounds - I was trying to simplify my life a bit!!
and just when I thought I had it all figured out . . .
I somehow deleted all my comments . . .
Yes - every last one - up to last Saturday evening.
and even a few on the post I had just done earlier that day.
I somehow deleted all my comments . . .
Yes - every last one - up to last Saturday evening.
and even a few on the post I had just done earlier that day.
I was in the process of making some changes . . .
to moderate all the comments in the future - as I have
been getting lots of spam lately.
Well - I was in an unfamiliar place . . .
(as I usually just use the little trash can when I am logged onto my blog)
and for some reason I thought it logical that I could delete them without
affecting the ones that had already been published . . .
And yes - I honestly believed they would stay published!!
But - obviously I didn't know what I was doing - and in a flash . . .
they were ALL gone . . .
to moderate all the comments in the future - as I have
been getting lots of spam lately.
Well - I was in an unfamiliar place . . .
(as I usually just use the little trash can when I am logged onto my blog)
and for some reason I thought it logical that I could delete them without
affecting the ones that had already been published . . .
And yes - I honestly believed they would stay published!!
But - obviously I didn't know what I was doing - and in a flash . . .
they were ALL gone . . .
I couldn't even believe it . . . I was in shock . . .
My sweet husband tried to help me retrieve them . . .
and I was up until about 3:30 in the morning . . . but no luck.
It all happened way too fast . . .
like a speeding bullet - and there was no way back.
I couldn't even believe that I could do this without a prompt from
blogger - to make sure I really wanted to delete them - ffffffforever . . .
like a speeding bullet - and there was no way back.
I couldn't even believe that I could do this without a prompt from
blogger - to make sure I really wanted to delete them - ffffffforever . . .
(which I obviously didn't!!!!!)
well . . .
this was most definitely not the type of
well . . .
this was most definitely not the type of
"freshening up" I was looking for!!
and although - this is also part of the journey
quite honestly . . . this little "delete all your comments journey"
was not at all fun!! I felt awful about it and still do . . .
was not at all fun!! I felt awful about it and still do . . .
These are the times when I know why I am a designer . . .
and not a computer programmer like my husband. . .
and not a computer programmer like my husband. . .
but I am quite sure of one thing . . .
that I won't ever make that same mistake again . . . ever!!!
I just want you to know that your comments have and still do . . .
mean the world to me!!!
and a little "french bird" just mentioned to me . . .
that I could change my settings - to allow anyone to leave a comment
(not just people who have accounts)
Thank you miss Kim - much, much appreciated!!!
just wanted you to know . . .
and I hope you understand!
xoxo . . . liz



















































and plan to share them in the next few weeks.
why?
because in this blogging world . . .
do we really show who we truly are?
what we truly believe?
I never thought I would be a blogger . . . not me??
In fact it all started out quite simply
as an information and marketing tool
for our vintage markets - directions, dates, pictures, etc. . .
and then it turned out to be something
completely and entirely different :)
yes . . .
it definitely does have it's ups and downs!
in fact there has been more than one time that I was ready
to throw my computer out the window!!
and yes . . .
I have cried like a baby . . . for all sorts of reasons!
The first time I remember crying was during the first few months when I thought I was responding to everyone's comments. My sweet husband looked over my shoulder and said sweetly . . . "I don't think those replies are going anywhere sweetie" . . . and I said "what?? - of course they are . . . they are going to this noreply at blogger and I am sure that everyone is receiving them . . . :) " And then a few moments later . . ."ahhhh - now everyone thinks I am awful and rude etc. . . " Of course the tears started to fall in buckets . . . why? Because I wrote these big long emails to people - and they never knew - and that personally made me very sad!!
I guess I should have read that blogging book
that everyone kept talking about . . . :)
I also cried at the computer when I read a post that was particularly sad, or inspirational, or sometimes even at my own posts when I realized how lucky I am to have such a beautiful mother, or father, or family or friends . . .
and sooooo many times I have cried for people I do not even know
and for whom I have never met . . . or ever will.
and then . . .
there was this whole blog list issue and following issue. Do I just do a few of my favorites? Or do I include everyone??. . . well of course that is what you do . . . and I started systematically adding everyone that ever left a comment, that were following . . . because - isn't that what you are supposed to do? Doesn't everyone do that? Isn't it the polite thing to do??
Could I keep up with it? Well of course I could!! (not) :) But not to worry . . . when things slow down a bit . . . of course I will get back to it and get it all updated :)
again . . . should have read the book!!:)
Of course the blog list started to get very long as I could not keep up with it . . . and then the question came to my mind . . . where are the blogs that truly inspire me? Well - maybe I need to categorize them in such a way that makes sense to my head . . . maybe that will help . . . days and weeks later . . . a job only partially done . . . and realizing that it is more confusing than ever!!
and yes . . .
I will probably change some things again
as I have planned to do so this month.
(most likely simplifying a bit . . . or maybe a bunch - as I have not yet decided)
but - what I truly want to say . . .
is this . . .
it is not about the blog list . . . or the number of followers . . .
or the number or comments . . . etc. . .
and quite honestly . . . I am glad I didn't read the book!!
Why you might ask?
because I am glad I experienced all of it . . .
for me . . .
it has been about the journey . . . about making mistakes . . .
about the true friendships that have been made . . .
about self expression of thoughts . . . and visual inspiration . . .
about a new appreciation for what I have that truly makes me happy . . .
some of it serious and important . . . and some of it not so much . . .
and I really, really like that :)
xoxo - liz
. . . best of luck to all of you who are just starting this journey . . .